What the bible says about dating non christians
There is always enough grace, God’s love does not alter when you have sex: The Christian Relationship Myth Finally, an actual Christian relationship is really not what you’d think!I imagined that when I did meet and fall in love with the guy God had for me that it would be easy, that I’d be a fantastic girlfriend and that he would never let me down.A few days have gone by since the excitement and my heart is torn, I feel guilty for even dating a man who doesn’t follow Jesus.
But when we announced our engagement I received a few emails from the pastor saying the Bible is clear that the relationship is wrong and that I need to end it. I knew that, out of love, I would receive some hostility from Christian friends, but it is getting to the point where I do not want to go back to church, because of the volume of people telling me to end the relationship—when they cannot give me a reason for doing so, other than him being a non-Christian. I was overwhelmed with joy, laughter, and excitement.
Dating is complicated, tricky, testing and can be a bit of an emotional rollercoaster. Doing it right is flipping hard and requires some serious dedication.
I’m not claiming to have this down, or to always get it right.
If Paul was okay with Christians being married to non-Christians, perhaps you could find your way to lightening up on the matter. Let their relationship grow into whatever it might.
Besides, it’s not like both parties being Christian ensures a wonderful marriage.
Some days, love will be a choice, but that proves that it’s real. The fact is, you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband….” I think God wants us to be happy and that there is a right and wrong way to go about finding a marriage mate but we have to be careful because God gave us hormones and feelings and his word.