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Because my husband is less emotionally afflicted than me, he can be unaware of how someone might receive something he says.
I’ve taught him to filter his thoughts a little better as to avoid hurting others whenever possible.
He’s frighteningly accurate, even in areas he’s not totally familiar with.
At least in my experience, these two types are well-matched in strength of will, self-reliance, intellect, and intuition (though the INFJ probably has it there).
The problem lies in the fact that the INFJ can ‘see’ past the things the INTJ can’t, most often with little proof.
That will be an issue for the INTJ – if it can’t be seen or touched or proven, it may as well not exist.
Then he will build it to look exactly like his drawings and comment calmly that he’s never built one of those before.
But I do believe the INFJ-INTJ relationship is often overlooked due to fear of too much introversion or an emotional mismatch.I haven’t had this experience in a relationship per se, but I’ve certainly been called anti-social more than once.I avoid talking on the phone (or, God forbid, Face Time – the horror), shopping anywhere but online, and keeping more than a couple of friends, because all these require far more interaction than I’m interested in having.He also understands that I need to emote and talk, and that shutting down is not often an option with me.However, I appreciate his efforts even more since I realize how different he is from me regarding emotional sensitivity.
At our best, we can rationally discuss issues and come to a resolution that we can both live with.